How much blood goes after deprivation. Why is blood released after deprivation of virginity? The psychological mood of the girl

Bleeding after deprivation of virginity is a very possible problem.

Bleeding after deprivation of virginity - what is the reason?

The entrance to the vagina in most women before the onset of sexual activity is limited to the hymen. Sometimes it just isn't there. Like the skin, this hymen can break during exercise, rough washing, rough gynecological examination, during intercourse (sometimes not the first time). In case of rape, a situation is possible with the rupture of not only the hymen, but also the skin on the perineum. This topic is shrouded in so many myths and omissions that some women are afraid to start sex life in general, as they have heard about the terrible pain during damage to this hymen. Sometimes conflicts occur in young couples, since the young man believes that the first sexual intercourse must necessarily end with bleeding. And he interprets the absence of blood on the sheets in accordance with his delusions.

The reality is that not all girls have a hymen. But if she is, then her rupture will not necessarily be during intercourse or it is not necessary to expect the appearance of blood at the rupture.

Bleeding after deprivation of virginity. Norm and deviations from it

It should be understood that the pain of a ruptured hymen is likely to indicate inflammation of neighboring organs. And prolonged bleeding after deprivation of virginity makes you suspect an inflammatory process in the vagina. Hematogenously (through the blood), with urine (with pyelonephritis, cystitis), if hygiene is not observed, the infection could be brought into the vagina and cause an inflammatory disease there.

If after the first intercourse there is a slight bleeding after deprivation of efficacy, there is no cause for concern. However, if the pain is severe and does not go away, the bleeding is intense or does not stop for a day, purulent discharge from the vagina appears, the temperature rises, you should immediately consult a doctor. It should also be remembered that the first time a young girl tries sex, she may have a vague idea of \u200b\u200bcontraception. Therefore, if after the first episode of sexual activity there was a delay in menstruation, then there is a high probability that this is pregnancy. With all the complexity of the issue of pregnancy at a young age, it should be borne in mind that of those women who completed their first pregnancy before the age of 18 with an abortion, 30% have a chance not to live up to 30 years due to oncology of the reproductive system. Besides, abortion is murder. You should evaluate all the pros and cons before intercourse. It should be especially noted that most women experience nothing at best during their first intercourse. So, losing your virginity, following fashion or imitating a friend is simply stupid.

The first sex is important not only for the girl, but also for the guy. This step should be meaningful and prepared, because deprivation of virginity is a difficult psychological and physical process. On this occasion, there are many comments from psychologists and sexologists who argue that for the first sex you need to be ready not only physically, but also psychologically. Since the development of the body occurs up to 18 years, that is, transitional age, it is not recommended to start sexual activity at this time.

The deprivation of virginity should occur in a girl already at a mature age, when she herself is physically prepared, when her hormonal balance is ready, and when the body itself can comprehend and accept such an action. As a rule, such a period falls on average 17-19 years - this is the most suitable age for starting a sexual life. So today, almost all of the greater half of sexologists of the entire planet thinks, even though some peoples have completely different customs regarding the wedding night.

Why is defloration important for virgins?

Everyone knows that the first sex is remembered for a lifetime. This is the first experience after which you start to look at men in a completely different way. The deprivation of virginity, both in men and in women, always happens enough in different situations. Someone already starts with an experienced partner, and someone learns this with someone who has not seen sex either. Already after the first time, some psychological changes are observed, in particular, the girls. She, roughly speaking, is already becoming a woman. Therefore, it is very important what this first sex will be like, how the guy will behave. This can be fear, embarrassment, indecision and fear of pain.

It is known that with the loss of virginity, the virgin film breaks and this action is characterized by certain pain. As a rule, at a rupture there is blood, which is the main indicator that the girl was innocent. But, it is worth noting that spotting after the first sex is not a mandatory characteristic that is observed in absolutely all representatives of the virgin world. Each has its own nature and location of the genitals, respectively, each organism reacts in its own way to sex after the first time.

Why does it hurt and bleed when losing virginity?

No need to listen to others about the fact that the first time is a failure and there is nothing pleasant about it. Many people say so, because such a picture is observed in the majority. But there are exceptions to this, and the first sex is different for everyone. For example, the release of blood after the rupture of the virgin film does not always occur. There are many cases when there is no bloody discharge at all. This is a kind of natural disposition, which cannot be denied.

There are also cases when the hymen breaks only for the third time, and after the first and second times it only breaks. In this case, the blood can go all three times or not at all. The pain during the first sex fully depends on your inner disposition and mood. If you really want this sex and are not afraid of your partner, things can go quite smoothly and less painful.

If you mentally tune yourself to pain and negative sensations, then an involuntary contraction of the vaginal muscles may follow, which will further complicate the passage of your partner's penis. This is a kind of psychological mood, from which it can not only hurt, but blood in such cases is observed much more often. Therefore, in no case should you tune yourself into negative emotions, and even more so, be ashamed of anything.

First sex time

There is no single answer to this question. There are only correct theories, which practically no one adheres to today. We can only say one thing, that everyone chooses their own destiny for themselves and if the girl decided or was prompted by a love relationship, then there is nothing to worry about if the time of the first time is early enough. The most appropriate time for deprivation of virginity is when the girl is really ready for this both mentally and physically. On average, this age falls on 18 years - majority. It is not for nothing that this age was called that way.

If you rely on the Law, then you can start having sex when you reach 16 years old, but on condition that your partner has already turned 18. You can say directly that these are just assumptions and laws written so that they can be violated.

The main thing is, during the first sex and before it, do not forget about the rules of protection and hygiene products. During sex, not only infection can occur, but also an unplanned pregnancy, since the first sexual desire is also doomed to the fertilization of the egg.

What happens during first sex and why can there be bleeding?

For sex, there must be a desire, in particular, we are talking about sex drive. This kind of excitement is manifested in different ways by guys and girls. In girls, excitement is evidenced by the wetting of the genitals, which occurs due to the release of special subcutaneous glands. Thus, mucus is secreted - a lubricant for sex. This lubrication makes it easier to insert the penis.

During the insertion of the penis, the girl may have characteristic discomfort or even pain. This is due to the fact that there is still a whole hymen in the vagina, the rupture of which can provoke pain and blood. Therefore, it is often said that blood after the first sex is a clear sign of deprivation of virginity. But this phenomenon may not be observed in everyone during the first sex.

After a certain time together, the partners have an orgasm, which is characterized by the release of sperm in guys. Since semen contains a lot of sperm, it is recommended to use condoms or other methods of contraception for safer and safer sex. Do not think that if after sex does not bleed, then nothing happened.

Bloody discharge is not an indicator. The deprivation of virginity could have happened in a more loyal way.

Is it true that it hurts for the first time and what position is better for him?

There are no specific guidelines for choosing a pose. Everyone chooses the most convenient and suitable for himself. Typically, this is the missionary position when the guy is on top of the girl. You can start with any position, as long as you both feel comfortable. If you think that there is less blood flow in a certain position, then this is completely wrong. If your body is disposed to such secretions after the first sex, then they will be in any case, regardless of the chosen position in which you will lose your virginity. As for pain, this characteristic is also individual.

Some say that the first sex for them was a real torture - no pleasant sensations. And someone, on the contrary, claims that there were more pleasant sensations than pain. If there was no pain, but blood is flowing, then this is not an indicator of any pathology, it is just the individual disposition of the genitals. On what exactly it depends, no one knows.

Tips for first sex:

there is no need to start intercourse if you are a girl not yet aroused enough. Lack of proper lubrication can increase pain and then things go awry;
if there is sexual arousal, and there is not enough natural lubrication, it is better to use an artificial one, which is sold at the pharmacy;
use a position in which both partners will be comfortable for the first time;
psychological factors of the rhinestone can affect arousal, so it is better to have sex with the lights off, then everything goes quite simply;
it is strongly recommended to use a condom during the first sex, which will help protect against unpredictable erection of the guy and unwanted pregnancy. This is due to the fact that many men and guys cannot timely control their erection and do not notice when the process of sperm eruption is going on.

When exactly does it bleed?

Most often, blood begins to flow during the first sex. As a rule, such discharge is not significant, but there are cases when the blood is strong enough. This is different for everyone. Often you will meet a girl who complains that the blood after the deprivation of virginity continues for 4-5 days in a row. Such phenomena can be characterized as possible periods. This is due to the fact that the first sex could provoke not only bleeding of the hymen, but also the beginning of menstruation. This is a kind of shock for a girl's puberty and the consequences can be very different.

The deprivation of virginity is often accompanied by various disorders of the genitals and all female characteristics. If after the first sex there is blood, and during it it was painful, then these are quite normal indicators, about which you do not need to worry at all. If everything happened the other way around, there should be no reason for concern either. As mentioned above, this is an individual natural disposition of the body to the beginning of sexual activity.

Each girl may react to this in different ways. There can be reasons for concern only with significant deviations. For example, this is a violation of the monthly cycle after a long break of the first sex, pain before menstruation or others. These symptoms may indicate existing disorders of the female body. If, however, you are still quite responsible and scrupulous about your body, you can consult a doctor after the first sex for advice and examination. This will be especially useful for those who have had unprotected sex with a partner for the first time.

ANSWERED: 01.02.2012

Hello Diana! The hymen can be very elastic and does not always tear during the first intercourse. Cases of rupture of the hymen in a woman during childbirth are described.

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REFINING QUESTION 07.06.2012 lena, Kazakhstan

REFINING QUESTION 18.12.2012 zhaz, uralsk

Why didn’t I have blood in the first sexual intercourse even after numerous attempts it wasn’t because of this my boyfriend didn’t believe and we parted. What to do? This is normal

ANSWERED: 01/06/2013

Blood may not always be released during the first sexual intercourse. The hymen may not have very many blood vessels, and if it ruptures, there may be very little bleeding. This is just a feature of your body, and a young man might not be so categorical.

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ANSWERED: 04/28/2014

Hello Diana! In some girls, the hymen is very elastic and does not always break during the first sexual intercourse. Explain this to your boyfriend, or go together for a consultation with a gynecologist.

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REFINING QUESTION 03.04.2015 Romanova Ira, Tyumen

Hello, I had the first sexual intercourse, but there was no blood, the pain was just a little bit, then several more times there was sexual intercourse, there was no blood either, tell them I'm still a virgin?

REFINING QUESTION 04.04.2015 Romanova Ira, Tyumen

So I could have remained a virgin?

REFINING QUESTION 05.01.2016 avazzzhan, Samara

I have been with my husband for half a year, well, a virgin cannot get pregnant

ANSWERED: 01/26/2016

It is likely that the hymen is preserved. But you can say for sure at the reception at the gynecologist.

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ANSWERED: 01/28/2016

Hello Lena! The hymen of some girls may not rupture during the first intercourse. You probably did it for the 3rd time. If the guy does not believe, let the gynecologist confirm this information. Go see a doctor together.

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REFINING QUESTION 29.03.2016 Akmal, Moscow

I am a Muslim during the first sexual intercourse with my wife, she was very afraid and in stress we had sex within 5 hours could do only 1 time, she had not had sex before. Shelter was 1 2 drop was very little and tip I have a doubt whether she was really a virgin or not? How much shelter should there be for the answer thanks in advance

ANSWERED: 03/29/2016

Hello,! Bleeding with a ruptured hymen is insignificant or completely absent if the hymen is not torn.

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ANSWERED: 03/31/2016

Hello, this happens with good elasticity of the hymen. Unfortunately, the doctor cannot influence the way of thinking of your boyfriend if he is not satisfied with this answer.

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ANSWERED: 04/01/2016 Aizikovich Boris Leonidovich Moscow 4.2 head departments of pediatrics

Hello, with a rupture of the hymen, the flow is not normal, since the vascular growth of the hymen is insignificant. As a result, it can be from just a pink spot when blotted up to a maximum level of 3 - 5 ml of blood. If you do not believe in the purity of your wife now, then answer the question: will you trust later? How honest are you to a woman that you don’t believe? Is it your first?

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ANSWERED: 04/01/2016 Aizikovich Boris Leonidovich Moscow 4.2 head departments of pediatrics

Hello Lena! Firstly, not everyone has it so that they lose their hymen from the first hollow act for various reasons, the pressure of the man and your patience and the peculiarities of the blood supply to the hymen and its elasticity play here. And the fact that your young man does not trust is bad and there is more than one question. The main one of which is whether you need a man who initially, instead of offering, puts you to bed and "puffs out your cheeks" why there is no blood, maybe you are not a virgin. Think, but you need it like that. This is not jealousy or distrust, but rather cynicism. I'm so white and fluffy and you're not a virgin!

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ANSWERED: 04/02/2016

Hello! The hymen can be of different structures. In some cases, it remains intact even with multiple intercourse. In this case, the gynecologist can conclude that you are a virgin.

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ANSWERED: 04/02/2016

I can’t say, but you could still have signs of virginity. You can easily check this if you go through a gynecologist's examination and ask your doctor about the condition of the hymen.

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REFINING QUESTION 15.06.2016 Elena, Kuibyshev

ANSWERED: 06/15/2016

Hello, it can be elastic and stretchable. The blood supply is always good there. It often happens that her oasis during childbirth

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ANSWERED: 06/15/2016

Hello, there is no point in convincing him. If he doesn’t believe him, drive him out, he is not yours and is not worth your attention.

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ANSWERED: 06/15/2016

Hello, virginity, the concept is more moral than physical. It's as you please

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ANSWERED: 06/15/2016

Hello, having an elastic hymen may not rupture it. And he doesn't need to explain anything, he won't understand

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ANSWERED: 06/15/2016

Hello, virginity is a more personal concept than a physical one. If that's convenient for you, please stay.

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ANSWERED: 06/16/2016 Canibadam

Hello, after marriage, I did not have blood during the act, he is my first man. When there was no blood, he accused me of dishonesty how to understand it

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Should there be pain during the first sex?

Everyone's first sex can go a little differently than others. Many women do not experience any pain during defloration. Pain often occurs when a girl is not yet psychologically ready for the first sexual intercourse. This can happen due to fear, embarrassment. As a result of this, a spasm of the vaginal muscles occurs and the girl naturally experiences pain. It is best to relax, trust your partner, and then there will be no obstacles to the penetration of the man's penis. It is also worth hinting to your partner that you are not yet ready, for example, for purely physical sex. He himself can understand this by the fact whether the girl has vaginal lubrication or not. If she is, and she appears, if the girl is sexually aroused enough, then the process of losing innocence will be easier. The more sexual arousal a girl experiences, the more extensibility her hymen has. In some, it can be elastic and easily stretchable, while in others it is thick, dense with many blood vessels and nerves.

In one girl, the hymen is torn completely during the first sexual contact; in another, it can persist until childbirth. Or, in some cases, you even have to resort to the so-called surgical defloration. It is painless, does not last long and does not affect the girl's well-being or appearance.

About blood and its absence for the first time ...

Approximately 10 - 20 percent of girls do not observe any, even very slight, bleeding during their first sexual intercourse with a man. Despite the fact that many people still believe that blood during the first sexual intercourse is a sign that a girl was a virgin before, the absence of blood cannot be an absolute sign that she has had sex before. Girls may have a different structure of the hymen itself. In addition, it may be completely absent from birth, be underdeveloped, or it could be disturbed as a result of some other manipulations not related to sex (overly thorough washing, inaccurate examination by a gynecologist, trauma, improper use of hygienic tampons, etc. .). So, there may be no blood at all, there may be little, or, conversely, a lot. And if there was bleeding, it continues for someone for only one day, and for someone for 4 - 5 days.

Therefore, you should not be intimidated, but rather focus your thoughts and actions on finding the most suitable method of contraception for yourself, so that the beginning of sexual activity is not overshadowed by the fact of an unwanted pregnancy for your couple. It is not difficult to do this now. At first, you can use a condom, and if sexual contact is constant, you can think about oral contraception.

All the best!

Best regards, Sandrin.

Virginity ... The reason for how many worries and troubles was this small fold of the mucous membrane even for modern girls devoid of prejudices ...

Bleeding after the first sex and pain in different girls may be strong, weak or almost absent. The amount and nature of blood lost during defloration is associated with the individual characteristics of the structure of the hymen. Since at the age of 20-22 years, there is a restructuring of the connective tissue base of the hymen, followed by a decrease in the number of elastic fibers, defloration after a girl reaches the age of 22-25 is always more painful and accompanied by large hemorrhages. Thus, from this point of view, the most favorable age for defloration is 16-19 years.

So, the rupture of the usual, thin hymen is accompanied by slight bleeding (within several hours and moderate discomfort. Extensible - it can expand to the diameter of the penis, tightly covering it and remain intact. Loss of virginity with a thick (fleshy) or regular hymen, as a rule, is accompanied profuse bleeding (up to heavy bleeding over the next 3-7 days) and severe pain.Hemorrhages in this case are also observed over a longer period of time.

HOW MANY BLOOD GOES AFTER THE FIRST TIME?

Below is a description of the condition in violation of the average hymen, which does not have any anatomical and physiological features. This description cannot be transferred to a specific person. To do this, you need to be examined by a specialist.

In the first two days, the hemorrhage has a rich dark red, red-violet, red-blue color, more often it is located around the entire circumference of the hymen or is localized only near the ruptures. The hymen acquires traumatic edema either all of it, or only along the edges of the tears. Also, these days, the edges of the ruptures can be seen small blood clots, its traces at the entrance to the vagina. Later, on the 3-5th day, a whitish-yellowish fibrinous plaque is observed at the edges of the ruptures. Hemorrhages in the hymen quickly turn pale and the edges of the ruptures are usually healed after 1.5-2.0 weeks. The thinner the hymen, the faster the hemorrhages disappear. By the end of the 3rd week after defloration, only traces of the former hemorrhage in the form of alternating areas of the hymen of a heterogeneous reddish tone can be seen occasionally. A thin hymen is scarred in only 5-7 days. Thick and fleshy takes longer to heal - by the end of the third and even the fourth week.

Making any physical influences in this area during the healing period (gynecological examination with a mirror, intercourse, etc.) leads to repeated trauma to the hymen, bleeding of varying degrees of severity, pain, and inflammation of the vulva. The addition of a purulent infection increases the healing time.

DEFLORATION WITHOUT BLOOD

The man himself most often does not feel the moment of rupture of the hymen, so some of them, not seeing blood, begin to ask themselves in thought or aloud with various questions. The real situation is that not all girls have a hymen. But if it is, then its rupture will not necessarily be during intercourse or it is not necessary to expect the appearance of blood. In some cases, it may be absent from birth or be lost due to inaccurate masturbation, as well as active engagement in some sports. In this case, when depriving of virginity, neither blood nor pain is observed.

A LOT OF BLOOD AT THE FIRST SEX?

Doctors recommend refraining from alcohol abuse before losing virginity for the simple reason that it dilates blood vessels. As a result, there can be much more blood. If there are such symptoms: the pain is severe and does not go away, the bleeding after defloration is intense or does not stop for a day, purulent discharge from the vagina, discomfort during urination, the temperature rises - you must immediately consult a gynecologist!

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WITH THESE QUESTIONS IN MOSCOW?

The only radical and guaranteed way to avoid possible bleeding during the first intimacy is to perform a small operation on the incision of the hymen. In our clinic, this is done under sterile conditions, absolutely painless and psychologically comfortable. If you do not want to experiment with the first sex or are afraid of possible troubles, this option is the best way out!

How to check why you are bleeding or avoid these problems during your first sex?

Make an appointment with a specialist
Discuss the situation at the reception
Find out what you can do and how.

Hello Angela!

It is normal that the first time you have sex in your life, you did not experience pain or notice traces of blood. This happens and is not so rare. Not for all, but for some girls, the first sexual experience does not cause blood or pain. For different girls, the first sex is different. There is no norm clearly established by someone. There may be two reasons why some girls do not experience pain and do not notice traces of blood.

Physiological features of the hymen

In about 10 - 20% of cases, no bleeding is observed during defloration. The peculiarities of the hymen in some girls are such that the rupture or tear is quite weak, since they have blood vessels in this way and, accordingly, there may be no blood.

Moreover, there are girls whose hymen is absent from birth, or it could have been damaged even before the first sexual intercourse (meaning cases that have nothing to do with sexual activity, for example, the use of tampons of the wrong size, careless examination by a gynecologist, etc.). P.). There is also an undeveloped hymen, and this phenomenon can be detected only with a gynecological examination.

In addition, the hymen can be quite elastic and simply stretches when the male penis penetrates, but does not completely break. A girl can even have sex for a long time with a stretched hymen, and lose it completely only during childbirth.

In addition, the hymen has different characteristics at different ages. So, at the age of 17 - 20 years old, it is very elastic and extensible, and defloration for most girls can be painless or with slight discomfort, while by the age of 27 - 30 years, the hymen becomes less elastic, thickens, and the loss of virginity can be painful ...

Modern girls and young people should already be aware, thanks to the abundant information on the Internet, that the absence of blood for the first time does not necessarily mean that a girl has previously had sexual contacts. It’s time to know this to everyone and not to accuse innocent girls of infidelity or promiscuity.

The psychological mood of the girl

Equally important for the presence or absence of pain is the girl's mood when entering into sex life. Some are ready for this physically and psychologically, and then the first sexual experience, as a rule, does not scare them and goes off normally. Others, for various reasons, are not yet ready for intimacy, but nevertheless enter into an intimate relationship. So, if a girl loves her partner or has strong warm feelings for him, then she surrenders herself to him more readily.

It also matters how relaxed and aroused the girl is. If the sexual arousal is sufficient, then her genitals are ready to accept a man. Here, much also depends on the man's ability to give preliminary pleasure to the woman immediately before intimacy. To avoid pain, partners must know each other well enough, trust and be able to deliver mutual pleasure. Well, the situation around should also be appropriate. It would be nice if the first sex took place in a place where no one would interfere and everything would be conducive to love.

All the best!

Best regards, Sandrin.

ANSWERED: 01.02.2012

Hello Diana! The hymen can be very elastic and does not always tear during the first intercourse. Cases of rupture of the hymen in a woman during childbirth are described.

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CLARIFYING QUESTION 07.06.2012 Lena, Kazakhstan

CLARIFICATION QUESTION 12/18/2012 zhaz, uralsk

Why didn’t I have blood in the first sexual intercourse even after numerous attempts it wasn’t because of this my boyfriend didn’t believe and we parted. What to do? This is normal

ANSWERED: 01/06/2013

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ANSWERED: 04/28/2014

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CLARIFICATION QUESTION 04/03/2015 Romanova Ira, Tyumen

REFINING QUESTION 04.04.2015 Romanova Ira, Tyumen

So I could have remained a virgin?

avazzzhan, Samara

CLARIFICATION QUESTION 01/05/2016 avazzzhan, Samara

I have been with my husband for half a year, well, a virgin cannot get pregnant

ANSWERED: 01/26/2016

It is likely that the hymen is preserved. But you can say for sure at the reception at the gynecologist.

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ANSWERED: 01/28/2016

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CLARIFICATION QUESTION 03/29/2016 Akmal, Moscow

ANSWERED: 03/29/2016

Hello,! Bleeding with a ruptured hymen is insignificant or completely absent if the hymen is not torn.

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ANSWERED: 03/31/2016

Hello, this happens with good elasticity of the hymen. Unfortunately, the doctor cannot influence the way of thinking of your boyfriend if he is not satisfied with this answer.

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ANSWERED: 04/01/2016 Aizikovich Boris Leonidovich Moscow 3.5 head departments of pediatrics

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ANSWERED: 04/01/2016 Aizikovich Boris Leonidovich Moscow 3.5 head departments of pediatrics

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ANSWERED: 04/02/2016

Hello! The hymen can be of different structures. In some cases, it remains intact even with multiple intercourse. In this case, the gynecologist can conclude that you are a virgin.

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ANSWERED: 04/02/2016

I can’t say, but you could still have signs of virginity. You can easily check this if you go through a gynecologist's examination and ask your doctor about the condition of the hymen.

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REFINING QUESTION 06/15/2016 Elena, Kuibyshev

Many women who are going to have the "first time" worry about possible bleeding after losing their virginity. Will there be a lot of blood? Where will the blood go? How painful will it feel? How long will bleeding after losing virginity last? Below are the answers to the questions that concern young women most often.

Why bleeding occurs after losing virginity

You experience bleeding after the first sexual experience due to a ruptured hymen. The hymen is a very thin membrane that partially covers the vagina. Almost every woman is born with hymen. The hymen is comparatively thick at first, but becomes thinner over time due to the use of tampons, exercise, and so on. But even when a woman does not lose her virginity at a very young age, a ruptured hymen can still lead to bleeding after the first intercourse.

How much bleeding will be after losing your virginity?

When a woman loses her virginity, she may notice that she has no blood at all or that the bleeding is not too severe. Most women will only get a few light stains of blood within a few hours of having sex for the first time.

It is important to remember that bleeding during sex, or lack thereof, is not an indicator of a woman's health or ill health. It is simply a natural reaction to the amount and firmness of the hymen and the extent of its damage.

There are some women who do not bleed at all after their first sexual experience. Most often it happens to those who are used to masturbation, play sports, go through intense physical activity, and lead an active lifestyle. The absence of bleeding during the first sex means that the hymen was torn or stretched at an earlier time.

Blood during loss of virginity and blood during menstruation

Many women expect roughly the same amount of blood from losing their virginity as they get from menstruation. This rarely happens. Usually, bleeding during menstruation is more profuse, lasts much longer and is more severe: sometimes menstrual bleeding is accompanied by cramps, mood swings, and other symptoms characteristic of the menstrual cycle. Bleeding after losing virginity does not have any of these symptoms.

How long will bleeding last after losing virginity?

The good news is that bleeding after losing your virginity only lasts a few hours at most. Someone has very little blood, someone a little more. Again, this depends on how thick your hymen remains when you have sex for the first time.

If the bleeding is very severe or does not stop for several days, gives you severe pain, you should see your doctor. These symptoms are extremely rare, but they are often a signal that some underlying problem exists.

How much pain does it hurt to lose your virginity?

Some women say that losing virginity is painful. How much it will hurt depends on the individual characteristics of the person. Someone experiences a one-time sharp pain, then it disappears, for others the pain lasts for a while, and for some of the women there is not even the slightest painful sensations in the process of losing virginity.

How to ease the pain of losing virginity

There are ways to relieve the pain you may feel during your first intimacy. The most important point is foreplay. The longer the foreplay lasts, the better the lubrication of the vagina will be, making penetration easier and less painful. Foreplay will also help you get used to your partner's body and touch.

Relaxing can also help reduce pain. On the one hand, the advice may seem illogical: how can you relax here if all your attention is focused on what is happening now ?! Think about this: When you are afraid of what is going to happen, your body becomes tense, which means penetration will be more difficult. The more relaxed you are, the better. Try it, but if you get scared, it is better to stop and do everything next time.

Article author : Margarita Degtyareva, "Moscow Medicine" ©
Denial of responsibility : The information provided in this article on bleeding after losing virginity is for guidance only. However, it cannot be a substitute for consulting a professional doctor.

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